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Blessed With Heavenly Love

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In this after-death communication, Catherine receives a vivid gender reveal dream about her unborn grandchild… long before her actual gender reveal.

Catherine writes:
“The day we buried my mom, my son wanted to give me something to smile about. He told me that he and his wife were expecting a baby.”

“Some months later, way before the gender reveal, I had a dream. In this dream, I clearly saw my mom who says, “Jay is having a baby girl! “No, mom. Jay only makes boys!” (He had three already) But, mom shook her head and finger and said, “Unh uhh. It’s a girl! I met her and she’s beautiful. I even blessed her with Heavenly love to prepare her for her new life.”

“Then, in my dream, I started telling everyone. “It’s going to be a girl! It’s a girl! My mom said so!” When I woke up, I called my son’s wife and said, “FOR SURE, ITS GONNA BE A GIRL.” Six months later, beautiful Violet was born.”

Catherine and Violet

Catherine and Violet

“This was no regular dream. It was real. My mom visited me in my sleep!  To this day, my son says Violet has a sweetness and giving nature that none of the other kids come close to having. She never stops smiling. My mom’s blessing to Violet Marie is that smile that lights up the world.”

 

 

 

 

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Dream Quality

Far too often, people who remember their dreams are not aware that all dreams are not created equal. There are just dreams… then, there are the vivid dreams that feel more real many times, than our waking life. 

One really would not begin to notice the difference between the two kinds of dreams unless they had some elevation of awareness that would make that possible. It is an awareness that sees outside the box. That’s what this vivid dream was- an awareness so elevated that it pierced the veil of the “other side.” 

In dreams, we may see people who have crossed over and sometimes, even those who still exist in this realm. But a true dream visitation is more about the quality of the dream that includes context and content, such as circumstance, meaning, metaphor, vibe and message.

Who or what is sleeping during a dream visitation?

Catherine wrote in her experience, “This was no regular dream. It was real. My mom visited me in my sleep!” There is a distinction to make between being asleep and having a regular dream versus being asleep while having a lucid dream visitation.

The experience of a regular dream is that of a body and brain in need of rest in order to process day to day experiences. Basically, both are tired and need to sleep to recover.

However, sleep-state lucid dreaming is attained more easily with a relaxed body and an alert brain. The body sleeps. This is why things like meditation, hypnosis and other forms of relaxation of the body and increased consciousness of the brain/mind works well toward expanded awareness. This is how we/they get access to them/us through the veil.

Excitement in Heaven

Violet

Violet

In this case, Grandma, who had recently transitioned, was so excited about the beautiful new great grand daughter that was coming to her family, that she couldn’t keep quiet. Not even from Heaven!

It’s like she wasn’t about to not be a part of the celebration. So much so, that she pierced the veil to demonstrate that she not only knew about the new upcoming life growing in her Grandson’s wife’s belly, but she had actually met her and blessed her too!

Our Departed Loved Ones Know Things

I have been writing about increased and expanded awareness in the context of lucid dreaming and dream visitations. This is just a sample of the mind-blowing experiences that await us.

We talk about “out of the box” experiences. When our loved ones transition over to our heavenly home, they become aware of so much more. Perspectives are broadened immensely.

They are no longer burdened by the chains of this world. They are free. They know things.

They Love Us

They are filled with love and therefore, our departed loved ones never stop loving us. They are aware of us and our lives. They are interested. They care. They are rooting for us to learn and grow. They want us to be happy.

As you can see in Catherine’s experience with her mother, our departed loved ones may seem gone at times, but they  are still very much connected to us and always will be. That’s what love is. That’s what love does. They bless us with Heavenly love.

Heaven Credit: JanBaby

Heaven

 

Being Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable

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In this after-death communication, Diane gets an important message of how to heal the loss of her mother, from her mother.

Diane writes-
“I had lost my Dad when I was 10 years old in 1958. Mom raised us alone. I lost my Mom in 1999. She was my best friend. I was raising my 4 year-old grand daughter at the time when I had the following experience.

One night, while in bed, my throat was burning from the pain of trying not to cry. All of a sudden my grand daughter who was lying next to me, said, “Grandma. Big Grandma wants to talk to you.” That is what she was called to distinguish the difference between herself and I.”

“Even though we were both in a sleep state at the time, I have this two-way conversation memorized because it was so ingrained in me. The dialogue went like this.”

Me: “Mom is that you?”
Mom: “Yes?”
Me: “Are you in heaven?”
Mom: “Yes.”
Me: “Have you seen Dad?”
Mom: “Yes.”
Me: “I love you.”
Mom: I love you,”
Me: “But, it’s so hard.”
Mom: “Diane. You have to get comfortable.”

Then, she was gone.

My grand daughter also remembers that Mom told her that she wanted to talk to me. It happened while we were both still sleeping. I only remembered it in the morning when I woke up. It has been 31 years and I have never forgotten what happened or the conversation with my Mom. Still, this has given me so much peace.

By the way, when Mom was alive, she saw Dad twice.

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The Being Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable Stage

I found that there is a stage in the grief process that falls somewhere after the worst of the worst emotions and before the stage of actual healing. I call it the “Being comfortable with being uncomfortable” stage. The message that Big Grandma said to her daughter about getting comfortable after Big Grandma’s death, gave the perfect introduction to this unique and undistinguished stage of grief.

More about Being Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable

It’s not an acute and brutal stage, like some of the others. It seems to exist more in the later experience and analytical deduction of some amount of acceptance. Meaning, the acceptance that what happened happened and there is not much to do about it. But, don’t get me wrong, even though this is a slightly more manageable stage to experience, there is still plenty of grief to go around from time to time.

Is This As Good As It Gets?

Although, it is still nothing that one would choose to feel on a consistent basis, I would describe it as a chronic malaise, sprinkled in with occasional sadness . For me, it was the constant, consistent realization that, considering the magnitude of the loss, this stage might be as good as life gets. My logical response was to settle in and make the best of it.

Keep Going Toward Complete Healing

If someone who is on the grief path is in this place, it might occur like this is the end of the grief cycle. I mean, it’s not too bad. There is still sadness, but nothing like before. It’s doable to stay in this place, however, this too, is just a part of the grief path and it is important to know that, after some time goes by, it is possible to heal completely.

I call this the uncomfortable stage because one is slightly miserable but there is not much to do to fix it. It’s uncomfortable because there has been a fair amount of chaos and trauma that has been experienced thus far that, although it can agitate at times, generally the impact of the experience is in a calming down phase. It’s just uncomfortable. It’s also not like there is anything you can do about it except to experience it.

An Important Point About Healing

To heal completely, it is important to experience all the stages of grief for as long as it takes. Some of them are really painful and some, more uncomfortable. But to not experience the trauma that has so deeply affected you and be willing to give voice to the depth, width and breadth of that loss, difficult as it is… is to either, sweep it under the rug or prolong the pain and take the risk of never being healed. The grief process takes a fair amount of courage and determination. It’s definitely not for sissies!

Not The Worst Thing In The WorldSo, learning to be comfortable with the uncomfortable is not the worst thing in the world. Diane’s mom said it perfectly. “You have to get comfortable.” Death and grief are not going away anytime soon. As part of life, experiencing pain is a part we would rather not deal with. Then, coming to the stage of being able to get comfortable with being uncomfortable serves us and is the next step closer to healing. This is what Diane’s mother came to say and wanted for her daughter the most as she pointed the way to peace and complete healing.

Breaking Through

Music From the Afterlife

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With songs from beyond, Don has begun singing daily to his sweetheart, Judy, of 61 years past, when their upcoming date was interrupted by his death.

Judy writes:
“Don, the man I was falling in love with goes back over 61 years. He last phoned me, and said, “Judy, I love you.”  We made plans for a date that same night. Tragically, he was killed before we could keep our date.”

“All these years later, I hear music that I believe he is sending to me. Sometimes I am with other people, and I am the only one who can hear the music. Usually, “Judy, I Love you” is part of the music, although the tunes can be different, sometimes very fast and sometimes slow.” Continue reading →

Perfect and Whole in Heaven

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In this after-death communication, Lisa’s parents come for an interesting visit that leaves no doubt of their spiritual visitation into her realm.

Lisa writes:
“I’d love to share a wonderful visitation dream I had back in June of 2022. It was extra special because this time, both my mom and dad visited me in my dream. The dream took place in our country home where we once lived together. We hugged and kissed one another. The love was such a comfort to me. I was so happy to see them both together.”

“Lately, I had been cleaning out a storage unit in which I kept the contents of my parents’ home. In the visitation, they both knew this and actually told me that they knew I’d been sorting through things to sell at a yard sale. My mother was thrilled about this. She had always told me not to keep everything.” Continue reading →

A Heartfelt Plea for Unity

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Lisa’s beloved mother, Mimi, once visited her daughter in a mind-blowing after-death communication. Then came, Mimi’s next visit.

Lisa wrote:
“Years ago after my mother passed, you posted the extraordinary after-death communication I had with my mother, called, Mimi’s Heaven. It really rocked my world back then. Well, recently, my mother came back to me in a visitation dream that was even more profound. I’m excited to share it.”

“As with my last experience with my mother, again, she took me through time and space, stopping briefly at nebulas and star clusters to view their glory. This time she reaffirmed to me that God had created all living things, all creatures big and small.” Continue reading →

After-Death Communication Message Types

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While there are many different types of after-death communications, in a dream, Rose receives the one of practical guidance.

Rose writes:
“I’ve had so many beautiful and amazing visits from my Mother, and lately from my Dad which made me so happy. A little while ago, here in the Hudson River Valley, we had severe thunderstorms with large amounts of rain. One night, my father interrupted a dream I was having. It was so shocking, knowing that he just popped in unexpectedly.

My Dad said, “All is well, however, please watch the rainfall nearby and remember the generator I gave you.” I woke up the next morning, remembering what he said. My day went on and by early evening, the storms came through again, thunder, lightning, severe winds and flooding. Continue reading →

Hugging a Departed Loved One

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After Jan repeatedly asked her departed mother for a hug, her heart’s desire is realized. Twice!

The Twilight Bridge

The Twilight Bridge

Jan writes:
“I had a couple of “dreams” again of my mom, but I am not sure if it was a regular dream or a “twilight bridge” dream. What I wrote to you before in “The Twilight Bridge” post were definitely not dreams. That much was obvious.”

“Now, I will try and explain my question to you. I had said out loud for many weeks that I wanted to hug mom. Then, I had two different dreams. Both were in the same setting, it seemed outside somewhere, not here in the house. It was like I drifted into an outdoor area where my mom was socializing with some people. She noticed me, smiled and greeted me with these people around her. It seemed like she was by a car. In trying to make sense of it all, I thought we were going on one of our short trips for the weekend or maybe we were there already.” Continue reading →

Healings From Our Departed

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While Melisa is sick and scared and unsure of what to do, Grandma mysteriously appears and miraculously heals her ailments.

Melisa writes:
“I am trying to make sense of an experience that I had several months ago and am not able to find any similar experiences online and am interested in trying to find out if others have seen the same thing as I have.”

“One night I felt feverish with chills, so I went into my closet and put on a robe that used to be my grandmother’s robe that she gave to me. I went back to bed but was unable to sleep. I began to feel more ill and was so scared that I might die because my heart was beating so fast and I was silently crying. I was on the verge of waking my husband who was sleeping next to me and ask him to take me to the ER.” Continue reading →

A Hologram Spirit Visitation? Is That a Thing?

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While Kim peacefully slumbers, her departed husband, Terry, materializes as he literally watches over her while she sleeps.

Kim Writes:
“I read your latest post about ‘The Twilight Bridge.‘ You have no idea how timely this was for me. My experience with seeing Terry, happened just before dawn. I wake up several times nightly, look at the clock, sometimes watch the TV that I usually leave on now for “company” in hopes of keeping my mind occupied, so as not to dwell on my grief.” Continue reading →

The Twilight Bridge

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After her mother’s recent passing, a sorrowful Jan, is repeatedly visited by her mother on the Twilight Bridge.

Jan writes:
“It is difficult to find anywhere to ask this question and it has bothered me since my Mom passed away a year ago. I had been living with mom for about 8 years and helping her to live in her home. She was 99 years old and fell while I was with her and did not recover. So, I do feel guilt, but everyone tells me it is not my fault.”

“After she passed (I live in her home), I was half-asleep. She came into the bedroom. I saw her in my mind, very clear. My eyes were closed and I wanted to wake up but my body felt frozen. I saw her distinctly for about 3 seconds and immediately woke up.” Continue reading →

“Other Worldly” Experiences

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“Other Worldly” experiences include spiritual manifestations such as Out of Body, Shared-death and Near-death experiences. Here is an awesome one from Terry.

Terry

Terry

Kim writes:
“It’s been 26 years since my mother passed away. On the night of her passing, Terry witnessed an incredible event. My husband and I were asleep in bed and Terry sat up like a BOLT and told me of his experience. He had just been flying at an incredible speed (he felt warm and no pain from his Rheumatoid Arthritis) down a hallway with doors on either side.” Continue reading →

There Is No Place Like Home

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In this after-death communication, Kim’s husband, Terry, hunkers down as a spirit in his home, until he’s good and ready to go to the light.

Kim writes:
“Terry, my husband of 36 years, passed away 6 weeks ago from a horrific battle with prostate/bone cancer. I cannot stop crying.”

“About 5 weeks after his passing, I had a dream that I saw him in his bedroom putting on his pajamas. There were 2 young girls that I did not know standing there. They were in their teens and had long, wavy hair that was parted in the middle. Pardon me for sounding snotty, but they were rather homely looking. They looked almost like twins. Both were wearing a sleeveless, cream colored, slip-over type dress. The material was lightweight and the girls were barefoot.” Continue reading →

Visiting A Departed Loved One

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Receiving an after-death communication from a departed loved one is an out-of-this-world experience. What if it were possible for us to visit them, as well?

Christian

Christian

It’s been 10 years since that tragic day of Christian‘s passing. It happened on March 31, 2010. With the ambulance on its way, Christian struggled for his life. In the end, it wasn’t meant to be.

Those were some of the darkest days I’ve ever experienced. For sure, there were some dark years to follow. I don’t know if I could have ever survived that great loss had he not visited me so much from the afterlife. It was with dreams, visions, and the other forms of communication, as well as some things he left behind for me, that he taught me so much about life and the afterlife. I learned that it’s really all just one big thing. An example of this is the Yin/Yang symbol. Each side of black and white look so different when really they are both sides to the same whole. For his teachings I am eternally grateful to him for his comfort and illumination.

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Transforming Tragedy

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Good and bad things happen in this dualistic world. Having an enlightened perspective can make all the difference in healing the wounds from these nightmares.

Bridgette writes:
“Both of my children were bi-racial. But this had nothing to do with their murders, it just made it difficult in their lives, as well as mine. I met their dad in High School when I was 15. At 16, I became pregnant with Tim and my parents sent me to a Catholic maternity home in New Orleans, when I was 4 months pregnant. They literally dropped me off. I was there through all the holidays and had no communication with them whatsoever. It was already decided for me, that I would give my baby up for adoption.”

“I can’t remember when my due date was, but the doctor said the baby was so big that he needed to induce labor and perform a c-section. At that time, I decided to call my parents to tell them that I would be keeping my baby. I was told I couldn’t come home if I kept that ‘nigger’ baby.” Continue reading →