There are times in our lives when we want or need to talk to a particular person in order to complete something of importance, BUT, actually doing so… may seem too difficult for us, if even impossible. Reasons for this lack of communication may include:
- Not knowing the person well enough, so approaching them could be awkward or even embarrassing.
- We speak different languages.
- We’ve lost contact, with no way of locating them.
- This person may live too far away, and maybe, even so far away that they are no longer on this planet.
- The person we want or need to speak to isn’t in a good position to be contacted by us, or… if we did contact them, perhaps they would refuse to speak to us, or hear our message.
- Or maybe… it is even our own pride that prevents us from speaking with them.
- The one we want to speak to is an animal.
But, it’s possible that this is the most difficult one of all…
- It could be that the issues between the two are so sticky, that every attempt to sort things through leaves those involved with an attitude of defensiveness and frustration, causing both to walk away while throwing their arms up in the air in sheer resignation!
You may have experienced this before. Completely discouraged by the many attempts to communicate, but to no avail, and now… you’ve finally given up the thought and hope that this issue between the two of you could ever be rectified.
But… whatever the circumstances are, it ends the same; you are left with the sense of the incompletion that continually hangs over your head, just begging to be resolved and put to rest.
More than likely, what you really wanted or needed to tell this person was something that you never got a chance to say; for example: to give an apology, to ask or accept forgiveness, to straighten something out, to make a request or to give them your love and/or blessings? Or maybe, you just wanted to be heard and were uncertain that you ever were in the past.
Many years ago, out of necessity, I learned that if I ever wanted or needed to get a message to someone, no matter how near or far, I could do so. I just had to remember what I had discovered for myself all those years ago, and how effective it always was.
Of course, while actually talking to this particular person might be the first and most obvious choice, this “Higher-Self Communication” method really works well, and maybe even a whole lot better then actually talking to them, when things have become too rough.
Communication with their Higher Self-
- Sit quietly with eyes closed with the intention of communication with this person. Give yourself a few minutes to settle into an inner peaceful state of mind by listening to your breath.
- Now, focus on this person. Allow yourself to rise above the limitations and constraints of your physical self until you feel like you have located and connected to their energy. Imagine they are sitting before you.
- When you’ve made this connection with your higher and wiser self, give their higher and wiser self the message you wish them to hear. It is important that you trust in your message’s delivery and reception.
You don’t need to worry about repeating it many times, or having some big ritual about it. In this peaceful state of higher connection, just give them your message and listen. Sometimes… you can even hear a communication back from their higher self! All this is taking place on a much higher level than the level of physicality, on which we exist at the time. Of course, it needs to be said that the higher and wiser self is beyond the petty things of this world, so messages given, would be given with love.
Higher-self communication is heard on an intuitive level, which filters down from the higher, wiser self, to the lower, physical self. Since this is an effective form of telepathic communication, don’t be surprised if you see subtle to drastic changes in your relationships immediately or over time. Don’t be surprised if someone calls you out of the blue, or you coincidentally run into them. These messages are direct and powerful, and with them, bring completion, which can bring about profound peacefulness.
Here’s a cute picture to inspire you!
He’s communicating with the cat he
always had issues with.
This practice is amazing! Thanks for sharing about it Jade!! xoSara
I had a dream of my father looking in a mirror at himself and he passed in June of this year on my birthday I wonder why on my birthday and what the dream means ? Also I’d like to communicate with him that it’s ok for him too move on
It was probably a premonition to you that he was soon going to face another part of himself on the other side. We rarely look at it this way, but death is like birth. It is a sacred time for us to be born and enter into a new realm.
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Hi , my ex partner got murdered in jail 26 years ago.. The last time I spoke to him was two weeks before he got murdered. Last thing he said to me I love you Sharon always love you . we split up a year and a half before he got murdered .. I moved on. I met somebody else. I wanted to live a different life. I always loved him and things didn’t work out for us. He chose to live a of crime , I choose recovery a different life.. part of me waited see if he would change when he got out of jail . We saw each other a few times in the 6months he was out , he was hanging out with my brother with he’s new girlfriend. He rang me one day and ask me to come back to him , he said I will ring tomorrow let me know . He rang and before I said a word he told me to stay where I was he had some catching up to do . He went back to jail and got murdered . I went to he’s funeral 26 years ago , I don’t remember much at all . A few months ago 2024 he’s family and a friend just started showing up . He’s friends posting photo of him on Instagram . My daughter-in-law was the one who told me on Christmas Day, she read about Ray . his nephew Michael I’ve never met just tapping on the shoulder one day ice cream shop I turn around and It’s like I was looking at Ray. He ask me to visit Ray Mum who he loved so much . I did and we held each other and cried. She in her 80 now . I meet he’s sister and went to her home , she wanted to show me the funeral on a DVD player . Some one filmed the funeral and put on the CD. We watch The funeral Saw myself sitting down the front, not crying just in shock thinking this isn’t happening, it wasn’t meant to finish this way . I was waiting for him to change , he promised me he wanted a life with me marriage and children. He was over that life of crime and drugs . He left me a tape with him talking to me for 45 min and playing songs . I gave it to he’s Mum 26 years ago , I got the tape back and I listen to he’s voice, our songs . I hear and feel he’s love . Iv heard him call out my name , I’ve just woken up in the morning also when I’ve been getting a massage and drifting off into a deep relaxation. I feel him some times around me , he’s touch my foot when iv woken up on the middle of the night , I know it’s Ray , iv ask him to please touch me , hold me to let me know he’s here . I feel like I’m going MAD , 26 years and he’s turned up back on my life .. I’m still with my partner Charlie , our relationship has been very stress full , a part of me wanted to leave years ago ., A few months ago in the middle of the night , I’m crying and my grief is coming up , 26 yrs stuck in my body . I call out he’s name RAY … please show yr self I need to know yr ok , your safe , yr at peace . I grab my iPhone and took a photo . Went back to sleep , I looked at the Photos of him and I over the years we where together. Then I noticed the photo I took that night asking him to show him self . He did , I couldn’t believe my eyes , for weeks I’m looks at this human figure, I can see it’s him and then I notice he’s face in the photo .. ii don’t know why he’s here now ? Is it unfinished Business between us ? I know he’s here to help me and I feel he’s love our love . I’m still grieving and I’m still in pain and a part of me doesn’t want it to be true that he’s not here in body so we can never be together. I love him so much , he here in spirit and I know this … but we never got the chance to live this life .. get married have kids and grow old together in the life we always spoke and dreamed about . Ray love and support gave me a reason to life , to go to rehab get clean and sober . I’m 29 years clean and sober today 2024 . He was the only one who believed in me . The sad part of the story is he didn’t believe he deserved his life of recovery peace love . I don’t know where to go from here ??? Warm Regards Sharon ps I don’t know how to send the photos to you , pls let me know so o can show you Ray in spirit
Wow! That’s quite an experience! I’m glad he is hanging around and that you got evidence now. If you want to share it with me, you can pull up the photo on your phone, click the share symbol, and send it to jade@griefandmourning.com.
Thank you for sharing. I think he is showing you that he is still with you and that love never dies. That’s amazing!